New Leaves

Almost a year ago, I began exploring non-profits to find a place to volunteer. I completed a certificate program to learn how these organizations work. The program was useful for choosing where to volunteer. Early into my semi-retirement, I realized I needed structure in my life and wanted to make a positive impact. Volunteering helps me achieve both goals.

I chose two highly rated charities to volunteer with, where I can truly make a difference. In the past, my volunteer work was short-term, but now I commit to volunteering weekly for a minimum of six months. My current volunteer experience is different from before, which included serving meals to the homeless, tutoring reading, and helping with school remodeling, as are the regular volunteers.

Regular volunteers are kind and passionate, enjoying teamwork, but I’ve noticed some quirky differences among them. As a newcomer, I ask many questions and find that some volunteers are outgoing and prefer to do things their own way. For example, at one location where I volunteer, one volunteer switched the thick pens at the front desk for thinner ones without explaining. The next week, another volunteer changed them back to thick pens. I didn’t speak up, but it seemed quirky, and they both looked frustrated by the changes. I wondered why the type of pen used for sign-in mattered—after all, a pen is just a pen. However, as I volunteer more, I see signs of control over minor things. Could this need for control be common among regular volunteers? Are they trying to take charge when it’s not necessary?

Volunteering has its quirks but comes with great perks. I enjoy not being in charge. In my job, I was always worried about attendance and finding replacements, which was exhausting. Now, with volunteering, I don’t have to worry about who shows up. I can take time off without feeling guilty and help out when I can without stressing about it. Another perk is the gratitude from the organizations I volunteer for. When I arrive, people are genuinely happy to see me and express their appreciation. This makes me feel good and motivates me to volunteer more often.

Volunteering has had some challenging moments for me as an introvert. I deliver food weekly to seniors who can’t leave home, and at first, I was nervous about dropping off the food. I wanted to leave quickly to avoid chatting, but as I delivered more regularly, I got used to talking with them. Many seniors have few visitors, and a short chat makes a big difference. Their positive reactions encouraged me to volunteer more often, which helps the organization, the clients, and me.

Volunteering regularly has made my retirement transition easier. Since my husband still works, my activities help organize our week. I don’t miss my job, but I do miss the social interaction and purpose it gave me. Now, volunteering offers those same benefits with more flexibility. I am still exploring new hobbies, but for now, volunteering is exactly what I need.